Taking on responsibility in Krsna Consciousness means taking on voluntary headaches!
People forget you are carrying out a service and that your actions are not personal.
I usually tell people I know will be difficult that I am not speaking to them as Bhava Bhakti but as xx service role or yy service role.
Of course when we don't want to take responsibilities for our actions the scapegoat is always our temple authority. They made us have poor sadhana.
They made us not carry out our services nicely.
It is because of them that I am not following etiquette nicely.
Etc etc.
Taking responsibility is therefore a two way process.
The person who takes on the responsibility on behalf of Guru and Gauranga and also the person who has to accept his/her predicament as a result of their own past actions and karma.
